Turns Out, Change is Great!

change is great

This is a post by Chelsea who is currently doing a Spending Fast®.

Change can be such a scary concept! Leaving the life rituals that you are used to and starting something new seems almost suffocating at times.

I was living in Ohio and having to work two jobs because after seven months of living there, I still couldn’t find full time employment. The world as I knew it ended and here I am, three weeks later, sitting in my new apartment in North Carolina with not one but two full time job offers. I have no idea which one to pick! How did I get to this point? Does it matter? What an awesome predicament!

Change is awkward and uncomfortable and unfamiliar but sometimes it’s good. Although I am very lonely and unhappy about my recent relationship split, I now have time to focus on my career. Which, when on a Spending Fast, is a great thing! What do I wanna be when I grow up? I have no idea! Now is a great time to channel my energy into figuring that out.

During the move, the bottom drawer to my dresser decided to break. My apartment has a big enough closet that all of my dresser items can fit inside it. As I was starting to take the dresser to the dumpster, I realized that I don’t have a desk. And a desk is really just a dresser without the drawers! So I took that bad boy back inside and started unscrewing the drawer brackets. After about 30 minutes of work, I have a new desk! It got beat up a bit in the move so I will have to paint it but instead of spending money on a desk, I created a free one. I changed something familiar into something new and useful.

After thinking about it, isn’t that what being on a Spending Fast and paying off debt is all about? Deciding to commit to the change instead of pushing against it. Changing your spending habits may seem weird and uncomfortable now but in the long run, it’s going to be beautiful and make your life more functional.

 

What are some ways a life change turned out surprisingly well when at first you weren’t sure it’d all work out okay?

Chelsea Overton is in the midst of a Spending Fast® and writes about it from North Carolina with her bulldog, Xena the Warrior Princess, by her side. 

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Being Frugal Is Better Than Shopping – Yes, Seriously

being frugal is better than shopping

There can be a certain physical reaction you experience when you are out shopping – something that feels similar to complete euphoria when you find the oh-my-gawd-perfect-handbag or those awesome-fitting-jeans. For some people the reaction goes way deeper in that shopping becomes a high they can’t seem to live without. While not everyone has a true addiction to shopping, it can still be a satisfying experience.

Know what else can be satisfying? Being debt-free for life!

Imagine no longer having the stress of worrying about how you plan to pay your electric bill. Focus on how amazing it would feel to not have to cringe every single time your telephone rings out of fear of a bill collector on the other end.

Frugality can go a long way to debt relief and getting your financial life back on track. Finding ways to save money in your daily life will certainly exercise your mind and your creativity. Frugal can be fun! Not only that but you can achieve so much more by using your powers for good.

Why Frugality Beats Shopping Any Day…

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Success is Closer Than You Realize

success is close

It’s easy to feel discouraged when things don’t happen the way we want or if they don’t happen as fast as we’d like them to but please, keep going. Success is way closer than you realize.

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Keep Your Eyes On the Prize

keep your eyes on the prize

Keep your eyes on the prize. It’s all about becoming debt-free baby!

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Tracie Forbes (AKA Penny Pinchin Mom’s) Getting Out of Debt Sucess Story

penny pinchin mom getting out of debt story

When it comes to getting out of debt, there is a lot of information out there to help you reach your goals.  Of course, you can read pages and pages about how to get out of debt.  But, does it work?  Does anyone really ever do it?  I’m here to tell you that they do.  How do I know?  Well, I have been on both ends of the debt spectrum — from declaring bankruptcy to paying off my own debts.  I share this story with all of you, not for accolades or “atta’ girl” notations, but rather because it sometimes helps to know that you are not alone and there really can be a light at the end of the tunnel (no matter how long that tunnel might be).

“How We Paid Off $37,000 of Debt in 27 Months…”

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How To Figure Out Your Skills & Sell Them For Cash

how to figure out your skills and sell them for cash

This is a post by Chelsea who is currently doing a Spending Fast®.

Since starting my Spending Fast a little over three months ago, I have learned quite a bit more about myself than expected. One of the main things is that I have a lot of marketable talent that I completely didn’t realize. Last Monday I started a new job (hallelujah) and my title went from “Clerk” to “Information Technology Specialist.” I tell you this because my college degree is in Spanish. I have no formal training in computers, I just happen to enjoy working with computers. I realized this a few months ago and added my skills to my resume. After meeting a new friend, I mentioned to her that I was good with technology and she told her boss; the rest is history.

How To Figure Out Your Skills and Sell Them for Cash… 

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DIY: How to Upcycle Your Favorite Flats

how to upcycle shoes

Old is new again with this easy technique! Rather than “Let’s go shopping!” This DIY is all about making do with what you already have!

DIY: How to Upcycle Your Favorite Flats…

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Month Two Totals: In the Spending Fast Trenches

spending fast savings totals

This post is by Chelsea who is currently doing a Spending Fast®.

My second month of being on a Spending Fast has come to an end and I must admit that I am thankful. During the first month I was all like, “Woo, look at me! I’m saving money and being awesome.” This month has been more like, “Ugh, I really want to buy nail polish and chocolate and wine and this whole not spending thing sucks.”

I know that by writing about my journey through And Then We Saved and on my personal site, I have been able to stick with my commitment. It is so tempting to cheat and buy something small every once in a while, but knowing I will have to report back on my progress has helped tremendously. I am an extremist by nature and often get pumped up about doing things and then burn out almost immediately. I jumped into the Spending Fast with the notion that I was unstoppable and could do anything. After eating cold soup (no microwave at work) and cracker sandwiches for lunch, the idea of being on a Spending Fast has become a reality. I am so grateful to receive motivation and encouragement from all the readers who share similar experiences. It’s comforting to know I am not alone.

All that being said, it’ s time to report my month two totals. Drum roll please…

My Month Two Spending Fast Totals…

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Is Being Cheap the Key to Living Your Dream Life?

be cheap to live your dream life

There are a few memorable TV shows that come to mind when thinking of the word cheap skate. Think of Seinfeld’s George Costanza who always tried to get everyone else to pay for his lunch at the diner and famously ordered the cheap-o wedding invitations with the toxic envelope glue. Even junior audiences have Mr. Krabs who wouldn’t let a penny hit the floor without rushing to the scene.

While we may laugh about these funny TV personalities or mock their cheapness, there is some financial logic behind their extreme frugal personalities, and it makes me wonder, “Is being cheap the key to living your dream life?” And, if it’s not THE KEY permanently, is being a cheap skate at least temporarily the key?

I think so.

How Being Cheap Is The Key To Living Your Dream Life…

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“How We Got Out of Over $147,000 in Debt!”

out of debt success story

Recently, I interviewed Jackie Beck who is the founder of The Debt Myth and creator of Pay Off Debt (an iPhone app that’s helped tens of thousands of people use the debt snowball method) Jackie and her husband paid off over $147,00o in debt and she is now dedicated to helping people get out of debt and really learn to love their financial life. That sounds pretty good to me! Here’s how they did it…

A Q&A With Jackie Beck- “How We Got Out of Over $147,000 in Debt!”…

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“How I Got Out of The American Dream and Changed My Life in 3 Years”

american dream

Carrie Smith from the site Careful Cents got out of $150,000 in debt in only 3 years, and today, she’s sharing how she did it!

Getting out of debt sucks — big time! I know, because a couple years ago I was over $150,000 in debt and I wasn’t even 25 years old.

I’ve told parts of my debt story, on my blog and on The Huffington Post, but today I’m going to tell you the whole story. All the dirty details.

“How I Got Out of The American Dream and Changed My Life in 3 Years”…

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How To Stay Motivated Throughout the Entire Year

how to stay motivated

As with many resolutions, made at the New Year and beyond, we start out strong towards a goal. But as time goes by and glitches in the road trip us up, we tend to lose our steam. When our path to debt freedom is sidetracked by an unexpected expense or we fall off the wagon when we see something we just ‘can’t live without!’ we tend to get down on ourselves and blow our commitment towards getting out of debt and staying there.

Staying motivated is possible for all goals – but you have to work at it.

How To Stay Motivated To Get Out Of Debt For The Whole Year…

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“I Thought I Had It All. And Then, the Market Crashed.”

debt pay off story tahnya kristina

Tahnya Kristina had a 6-figure income and lost it when the market crashed. Today she’s sharing how she’s made getting out of debt her number one priority and how she changed the way she approaches money.

Getting Out of Debt Is Not Fun, But It Can Be Easy… 

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The Only Joy is to Begin

the only joy in the world is to begin

“The Only Joy in the World is to Begin.” – Cesare Pavese

It doesn’t have to be January 1st to change your life. No matter the date, make the decision to start.

If you want to change your life, you can!

Today is THE DAY to go for it! Why the heck not? Let’s do this!

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4 Ways to Bust Out of Your Money Comfort Zone

getting out of your money comfort zone

Admittedly, old habits can seem hard to break. When you get into your own daily routines, you tend to wander along through your days without changing too much. This is because routine is comfortable and change is tends to feel very uncomfortable.

When it comes to money, people get set in their ways with how they do things just like we do in other areas of our lives. We pay our bills, put money into savings (ideally) or we avoid our bills and over-spend; everyday waking up and going to work so we can keep our lives moving.

Many times, when we have never-ending debts we tend to shrink away from our obligations because they feel so overwhelming. I know I was stuck in the cycle of doing just the bare-minimum to keep my head about water but when I started to make itty-bitty jolts of progress or when I had money in my pockets it felt weird. I was so used to being broke and struggling that having things go any other way were super forgein. I had to re-train my brain to get more and more comfortable with the idea of things not being how they historically had been. Who would’ve guessed that as terrible as being in debt felt that having money in my account would feel strange too.

Getting Out of Your Money Comfort Zone…

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See Ya Soggy Bags! DIY Plastic Baggie Dryer

easy plastic baggie DIY

It seems that every frugal person I know is into washing out and re-using their plastic baggies. I think the minute we decide to be more money-conscious we get a letter in the mail that says, “Just FYI, re-using plastic baggies will now be your ‘thing’.” So, as the good frugal person I am I, of course, wash and re-use my plastic baggies. Everything was going just fine until one day we had to buy a new box of plastic baggies. This made no sense since I should have at least 20 baggies that were ready to be re-used. I knew something was up. Was I not putting them back into the cabinet like I thought I was? Was an elf slipping in and stealing my baggies? Who’s got beef with my baggies? Turns out, my husband Aaron’s got beef with my plastic baggie habit and has been tossing my plastic baggies when I wasn’t looking! Raining on my frugal parade? Yes.

Turns out my constant stream of wet plastic baggies were really annoying him because they were never truly getting dry, and as he now puts it he says, “They were ripe for disease!” Since the plastic sticks together when they’re wet they were always a little damp on the inside. Enter my magic invention (and marriage saver), the plastic baggie dryer! Now, my plastic baggies are always dry and they have a place to hang so they don’t take up valuable dish rack dryer real-estate. First-world problems, I know.

How to Make a Plastic Baggie Dryer (and Stop Annoying Your Husband)…

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Hey Girl…

hey girl, you look good when you pay your bills

i'm broke! ain't nobody got time for that!

Looks like someone got ahold of a meme generator. Bet you’ll never guess who.

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Make a Motivational Mobile

make a motivational mobile

Recently, I found out about Color Me Katie and her theory of creating art with what she either already owns or with inexpensive things like markers, poster board, colored paper, or stuff from the dollar store. She says (and I’m totally paraphrasing here), “You don’t need to spend a lot of money to make art.” So when I came home from Alt I found myself with all this colorful candy and decided that I was going to use what I had to make something fun. So that’s what I did!

How to Make a Motivational Mobile…

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Don’t Give Up! You’ve Got This!

don't give up before the miracle happens

“Don’t give up before the miracle happens.” – Fannie Flagg

It’s easy to feel discouraged when things get tough through the getting out of debt process but I have to urge you to continue on. If you haven’t started your getting out of debt journey yet, believe that’s it IS possible to become debt-free.

Please, do not give up before you start. You deserve a debt-free life so let’s kick some debt-ass together and get on with some good living!

You’ve SO got this!

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Happy 3 Years! (& A Year-End Review)

happy 3 years

Whoa. It’s been 3 years (as of December 29th) since I started this site as a way to document my impending Spending Fast, and I always like to look back at the previous year to take it all in and appreciate what’s happened and the progress that’s been made.

The first year (2010) was all about the Spending Fast, and I managed to eliminate close to 18k that first year (!!).

The second year (2011) was all about the Spending Diet, and I managed to eliminate the remaining debt. It took a total of 15 months to knock-out the debt that I thought I would die with.

This third year (2012) has been all about trying to learn how to spend “normally”. Some months have been super easy and other months, super terrible. I guess that’s about as “normal” as it gets, huh?

Some highlights from the year…

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You Don’t Need It! How To Stop Buying So Many “Wants”

how to stop buying wants

There are often things I see that I really, really want, and even though I know I don’t need whatever it is that’s catching my eye sometimes my judgment lapses, and I just cave to the temptation.

The impulse to buy these things can be really powerful sometimes, and making small purchases can add up to several hundred dollars or thousands of dollars a year if you’re not careful– and if you’re anything like me you probably won’t even use the impulse buy a few weeks after you make the purchase.

Avoiding “wants” is essential if you want to save money, especially if you’re following the Spending Fast or the somewhat more lenient Spending Diet plan.

Here are a few ways to avoid buying everything you (think) want…

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How to Prepare for a Spending Fast

prepare for spending fast

Have you taken the Get Out of Debt Pledge and you planning on starting a Spending Fast soon?

Here are a 7 ways to prepare for your Spending Fast…

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Commitment (& Restrictions) Can Be Deeply Liberating

the irony of commitment is that it's deeply liberating anne morris quote

Once I decided to be done with my debt my whole relationship with money changed.

I was finally REALLY ready to be done with debt for good. I was committed to the process and it was time to take action.

The Spending Fast can seem very restrictive (because it is) but it was surprisingly freeing to have those restrictions. I no longer had to feel guilty about shopping and spending. If an item was on the “needs” side of my “wants and needs list” I could buy it was and if it wasn’t on the “needs” side of the list, I didn’t buy it.

To buy or not buy was clear-cut. There was no grey area. To have those limitations was a relief.

 

Have you ever had limitations put on you only to found that you were less stifled than anticipated?

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How To Do A Spending Fast ® and Get Out of Debt Quick!

A Spending Fast ® is considered an extreme but very effective method of getting out of debt quickly. A Spending Fast works through the elimination of all “non-need” spending.

I did a Spending Fast and I substantially improved my financial situation by paying off $23,605.10 in debt. It only took 15 months and I couldn’t believe it! Because I’m now debt-free I can live the life I’ve always wanted to live. I’m able to be autonomous and I’m able to focus on my goals without having debt hanging over my head and affecting all of my decisions.

There are a few things to think about before you start your own Spending Fast and all of these elements will affect how fast you are able to become debt-free.

These Factors Will Affect Your Spending Fast ® 

  • Your income
  • The total amount of debt you have
  • How much spending you decide to cut out
  • How committed you are to the process
  • The duration of time that you chose for your Spending Fast
  • How much money you can make by selling your unused possessions
  • What you chose to do to generate additional income and how much money you can bring in with the side job(s)

When I finally decided that I had to be done with my debt my life completely changed, mainly because I was finally willing to do whatever I needed to do to be done with my debt once and for all. The cycle of debt, guilt, and remorse had to end.

Life is so much better on this side — the debt-free side! If you’re ready to change your life and if you’re ready to get rid of your debt quickly, this is how to do a Spending Fast. You can do this!

 

How To Do A Spending Fast ®…

1. List Your Debts and Their Interest Rates

Make a list of all your bills, and then write the highest-interest rate bill at the top of the list with the lowest interest rate bill at the bottom of the list. This will determine the order in which you will eliminate each bill: highest interest rate bill to the lowest interest rate bill.

2. Ask Your Creditors for Lower Interest Rates

Call the credit card companies and ask them to lower your interest rate. They just might do it so it’s worth a shot to call them and ask.

3. Picture the Life You Dream of Living

Determine your priorities by putting actual pen to paper and by writing down your ideal life. What would you be doing if you didn’t have to work for a living? How would you spend your time, and when are you the most happy? Ask yourself, ”Is there any way I can reach my goals with the debt I have?” If the answer is “no” and you don’t feel good about it, then it’s time to start thinking about making some serious changes. Be very honest with yourself. Do you find that you’re making decisions about things to do (or not do) based on the amount of debt you have? Does your debt prevent you from living a life that is true to you? Does your debt (and your obligation to it) pull you and angle your decisions in even the subtlest ways?

4. Make The Commitment To Be Done With Debt Once and for All

If you’re not ready to be done with your debt, then you might want to try some other methods first. The Spending Fast technique requires a lot of commitment and dedication. A Spending Fast is a way to get extreme results in a relatively short amount of time, but you have to be ready to go forward full-force with it. Your life will change and it will affect every area of life. Getting out of debt and committing to the Spending Fast is worth it, it’s just not easy!

5. If You’re Partnered, Try to Get Them to Do the Spending Fast With You

It’s a lot easier to change your life if your partner is on board but, if they aren’t, then consider doing the Spending Fast solo (I did it that way). Separate bank accounts are very helpful if you’re doing the Spending Fast solo.

6. Set a Time-Frame for Your Spending Fast

I recommend a year, so you can get past the difficult beginning part (where all your habits are getting changed) and into the real benefits part (where your debt is getting paid off). A year can seem long day-to-day but at the end of the year you’ll be surprised how fast it goes by. If you chose to do a weekend-long spending fast, a week-long spending fast, a couple months or a year, you will still get results and it will still positively affect your financial situation.

7. Make a Public Declaration of Your Desire to Become Debt-Free

Tell your friends and family about your decision to do a Spending Fast so you can have the accountability that comes along with it. In addition to telling your family and friends, take the Debt-Free Life Pledge, and read the entries from others who are committed to getting out of debt too (it’s super inspiring to read the pledges and I always read them when I need extra motivation).

8. Create a “Wants and Needs” List

The “wants and needs” list is the backbone of the spending fast. On the “needs” list include just the necessities needed to live: rent, food, utilities, etc. On the “wants” list, put everything that is an “extra” in your life. Things that went on this side of the list for me were items like clothes, coffee at coffee shops, movies in the theater, gifts, bed linens, new music, new make-up, shoes, etc. (Here is my original Spending Fast *Wants and Needs* list - 1/4 of the way from the top of the page.) The *Wants and Needs* list can (and will) be different based on each person’s varying priorities in life. If you decide that something should be on your needs list that wasn’t on mine that’s okay! Just try not to justify adding things just to make it easier. You can do this!

9. Spend Money on the “Needs” Side of the List Only

This is the simple-but-not-easy part of the Spending Fast.

10. Think About What You Can Buy Rather Than What You Can’t

If find yourself starting to feel bummed out when you’re in the thick of the Spending Fast, try to shift your perspective, because it will do wonders for your morale. Remember to keep having fun (just the free kind). Remember that the Spending Fast isn’t forever. There is a light at the end of the tunnel (that’s why you set a time-frame at the start), and remind yourself of why you’re doing the Spending Fast in the first place — it’s to get out of debt once-and-for-all and to change your life! Look at the list you made in step #3 when your morale gets low.

11. Become Immersed in a Community of Like-Minded People

Get involved in the And Then Whe Saved Community. This is where people share their questions, struggles, accomplishments, set-backs, tips, tricks, and most importantly, their getting-out-of-debt successes. It’s a great place to get a reminder that we aren’t alone in our dreams to live debt-free lives.

12. Attack Your Debts

At the end of the month, send all the money that is left in your account to the bill that has the highest interest rate. Continue to send the minimum due on your other bills. Once a bill gets knocked out, be proud of yourself! You’re really doing it! You’re becoming debt-free! Next, start working on the next highest interest rate bill on the list. Become competitive with yourself; try to get better numbers than the previous month and keep track of your savings from month-to-month. To be able to see all of the savings at the end of the year is amazing.

13 & 14. Be Committed to the Process and Continue With the Spending Fast Until You Reach Your End Date

It’s unrealistic to think that “mistakes” won’t happen so keep going even when they (inevitably) occur so when they do, re-focus, and get back at you. Stick with the Spending Fast for the entire time-frame you committed yourself to. If you reach your goal of paying off your debt and you happen to do it before your predetermined end date (um, awesome!), then why not keep going? Squirrel away the extra money and prepare yourself for the next step — financial security.

15. Be Proud of Yourself for What You Accomplished — Big or Small

When you come to the end of your Spending Fast, look back on all you were able to do. Being proactive and being willing to take charge of your life and finances is definitely something to be proud of!

Throughout the Spending Fast, always be on the look-out for ways to cut the “needs” list down even more, get creative with ways to save money, and be willing to make things yourself in an effort to save.

Before you know it, saving will become (unbelievably) more fun than spending and your financial life will be forever changed!

 

Spending Fast ® is a registered trademark. All rights reserved.

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An Accessories Swap Is Happening!! Can You Come?

Swapping madness has officially hit Denver! And, it’s A-W-E-S-O-M-E!

What’s so great about swapping is that you get to get rid of the stuff you no longer need or want and you get to pick out NEW to you THINGS! It’s a way to re-mix your style and infuse some freshness. It can also be an adrenaline rush when the swap begins and everyone is trying to find the best things! It’s exciting!

Having style while also trying to save money and get out of debt can feel very difficult, especially if you’re used to going to the stores and buying whatever is cute (that’s what I used to do and it got me into a lot of trouble!) Swapping is a fun and social thing to do with your girlfriends and you can make a night out of it! (don’t live in Denver but want to get in on the swapping fun too? The Swapaholics tell you how to host your own swap with your girlfriends right here.)

Oh… and did I mention that Handbags.com is giving away 3 amazing brand new bags to swappers at the end of the night?! Um. Yes. It’s true.

Here are the event details

It’s An AndThenWeSaved.com Accessories Swap! Sponsored by Handbags.com

If you’re a woman in Colorado you’re invited!

Bring your girlfriends and make a night of it! This is going to be a lot of fun!!

When and Where
· Saturday, March 10th from 6:30pm to 9 pm 
· It will be held at The Curtis Hotel located at 1405 Curtis Street, Denver, CO
· The actual swap will start at 7:30 pm on the dot. Please arrive between 6:30 – 7:00 pm so we have enough time to inspect & sort your items.
· $5 CASH ONLY to enter. A portion of the proceeds will be given to SafeHouse Denver (supports and assists women and children in leaving dangerous domestic violence situations).

Details
· Swappers please bring 10 great pieces: Handbags, shoes, hats and jewelry to swap. Bring items that you would give to your best friend or sister! (If you don’t have 10 items bring as many as you want to swap and you’ll be able to take that many. For example, bring 6 items take 6 items.)
· Your items will be checked by official Handbags.com Inspectors so please don’t bring things that are falling apart, have stains, holes, are smelly, broken or just plain ugly! We will not accept these items! We want everyone to leave with great items at the end of the night:)
· At 9pm 3 people will win a fabulous bag from Handbags.com!! (Big Buddha bags valued at approx. $100!)
· At 9pm all of the items that have not been swapped can either be taken back by the original owner or can be left for donation to SafeHouse Denver (a women’s domestic violence shelter)

More Goodies
· Free Parking Garage is Available at the hotel for the 1st 100 people (you’ll receive a parking voucher when you check-in for the swap)
· First 50 Swappers will receive 1 FREE drink ticket
· Handbag Design Contest (winners will win fabulous bags from Handbags.com! at 9pm)
· DIY Button Making Station
· Tunes by DJ El Brian
· Sweet Treats from Pastel
· $5 Mani’s from Tootsies Nail Shoppe 
· Photo-booth FUN will be provided by Newell Jones + Jones Photography

If you’d like some more info on anything here are some links that may be helpful or send me an email. 
· Handbags.com
· Safe House Denver
· The Curtis Hotel
· Tootsies Nail Shoppe
· Newell Jones + Jones Photography 

 

Hope you can make it! RSVP right here

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in Clothing Swap, Social, Staying Out of Debt, Style
The Process of Habit Evolution

debt free for life changing habits

When I started up the Spending Diet in January of 2011 to try to eliminate the remaining debt that I had I was shocked at how hard the Spending Diet proved to be. I thought that it would be easier than the Spending Fast. Since I had just completed a year of spending no money at all, the Spending Diet seemed like a piece of cake! Especially since I got a $100 “non-need” allowance. (When I first decided to do a Spending Diet I was going to give myself a $200 a month “non-need” limit, and changed it to $100 a month because $200 a month seemed waaayyyy too easy! *shakes head in disbelief*)

Turns out $100 is not really much money at all, and most months it only proved to be a gateway drug to spend more than I was supposed to, and often I felt frustrated that I wasn’t able to stick to my $100 limit.

Sticking to the Spending Diet was very difficult and that sucked. The guilt and remorse that was so often associated with my spending prior to the Spending Fast was back, this time though, I just didn’t have the debt cloud hanging over my head.

That discretionary spending was, once again, my problem, and my main issue. I found myself losing track of how much “non-need” spending I did, and more times then not, I didn’t want to keep track. I found that it was a lot more tedious to be on the Spending Diet because I had grown so accustomed to my “Wants and Needs” list of the Spending Fast. If an item was on my “Needs” list, it was okay to spend money on the item. If it was on my “Wants” list, “Nope, no spending on that!” The Spending Fast was cut and dry and that part made it very easy.

While the Spending Diet was extremely difficult, it eased me into thinking more “normally” about money.

This whole process has been so much about changing my thinking, and about changing my habits even when I don’t really want to.

how to change habitschange

Deep-down, I’m still a natural spender, but I’m also solid proof that getting-out-of debt is possible (even as a spender).

And even though I was far from perfect on the Spending Diet it helped me go from the extreme of spending no-money-at-all to spending a-little-money-sometimes, it’s been more than anything, a transition. A transition that’s taught me how to be cautious with my money, and to not go all ape-sh*t wild like I really want to most of the time.

Like for example, I want to buy these shoes (why is it always shoes or boots!?) and it’s driving me nuts how much I’ve been thinking about them. I’ve looked at the website probably 20 times (at least) this weekend (um, crazy time-consuming! I’ve got stuff that really needs to get done, and I still can’t seem to control myself!), and I keep comparing them with other shoes, and trying to justify a reason why I need these shoes. The reality is, I have plenty of shoes. They’re just not those shoes, and I want those shoes on my feet! Like, yesterday!

Being on the Spending Fast, and Spending Diet has taught me that I can switch camps from being a “Spender” to a “Saver”, that getting out of debt it more hard than it is easy, that it takes a lot of time and repetition for habits to die and for habits to evolve. I’ve also learned time and time again that mistakes will happen, and that it’s really, seriously, okay that they do.

I’ve also realized that I seem to learn the most when I mess up. When I have to find a way to fix something that cements it in my brain.

It’s in the fixing that the true changes happen.

So, with that, this is how the Spending Diet shook out for 2011-2012…

Total Spending Diet Savings: $5,973.94

While that number is considerably lower than the savings from the previous year’s Spending Fast of $17,911.89 it is still pretty good.

(See my Total Savings from the whole deal here)

My habits are continuing to evolve and I’m making peace with the fact that even if I don’t do something perfectly progress is progress. Today, I can live with that; even if it’s hard to see the changes as they’re happening I’m completely amazed when I look back on the past two years and what I’ve been able to accomplish.

debt free livingimage via a well traveled woman

What have you been able to accomplish that amazed you? What habits are the hardest for you to change? What do you do to stay motivated on the days that you want to quit?

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On Not Giving Up & November’s Spending Fast Savings

Everyday I wake up and look at this poster. It’s right in my line of sight as I stagger into the living room to head out to work. Since it’s also bright red it catches my eye whether I want to look at it or not, and it reminds me to keep going even when I’d rather not. 

In November the Spending Fast was reactivated. I’ve mentioned that the Spending Fast is tough, and the beginning of it is the hardest part by far. All the habits are getting jolted out of place, all the auto-buys are being denied, all the quick-fixes are no longer happening. It’s hard to make these changes. 

I re-activated the Spending Fast to tackle a medical bill that came up. Allergy shots were the cause of the damage and they ended up kicking my butt in the bill department. I set up a payment plan with the hospital and promised I would pay them $150 a month until the total bill of $2,556.96 was eliminated.

November was rough trying to get back into the full swing of the Spending Fast again (and I wasn’t totally perfect with it) but I’m happy to report that I saved $823.44 which is promptly being sent off to the hospital for the bill (new balance is $1,733.52). That’s about double what I was saving while doing the Spending Diet. That’s kind of huge, and proves to me that once again the Spending Fast works to help get rid of debt in a mighty fast way. 

See my total savings and break-down from every month here.

Did you do the Spending Fast too? How’d it go? What’d you learn? What went well, and what didn’t?


Poster details: Print Liberation

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Make Your Own Miracle

There will be miracles.

Start the Spending Fast November 1st along with me. I’m pausing the Spending Diet to start the Spending Fast up again to get rid of a medical bill. Do you need to get rid of some debt too? Is something hanging over your head? Or do you want to get some money into savings for emergencies? This is a great way to make some fast progress on your financial goals, and it might just be the best kind of DIY ever.

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Back In The Hole. Back In Debt.

by jen stark

It’s hard to believe that I have to write this post right now. I didn’t want to say this, but I’m back in debt. 

It’s a medical bill so that makes me feel a little better about it, but debt is debt is debt. It still hangs over my head taunting me. 

It says, “You thought you beat me. You thought you said goodbye. But, I’m here, and we’re hanging out.”

Like an ex that won’t get the hint, like an itch that no amount of scratching will remedy, like a demon from Paranormal Activity. It’s back.

I’ve got allergies. Really really bad allergies. They’re the kind of allergies that make everyone I see think I’m sick with something contagious. People step back. They wash their hands. They pump that hand sanitizer an extra time. You know, those kind of allergies. 

Red, watery eyes, runny nose; the whole deal. For years they have gone on and for years I’ve taken prescription medication for them. At one point my voice sounded so nasally that it even annoyed me.

Here are some things I learned while visiting the allergist:  

  • If you’re around something and then you have symptoms, you’re probably allergic. Profound, right?
  • Allergies can change every 7 years.
  • The waiting room at an allergy clinic is full of Epi-pens and people with Epi-pen stories. There is never a shortage of these stories.

I found out a while back that I’m allergic to everything outside. Everything except for pine trees. If it wasn’t for the pine trees I’d just get myself one of those hamster bubbles (human-sized) and just live in there. Because there’s just no point if you’re allergic to everything. But, the pine trees, they give me hope.

One day I was at the doctor talking (again) about my allergies and he mentioned this thing called Rush Immunotherapy. He told me “It’s two days in a row and we inject you with everything you’re allergic to.” To which I replied, “That sounds completely terrible. Sign me up!”

I had never really entertained the idea of allergy shots because of the time commitment, but this two day intensive thing, I could get behind that. 

I called my insurance, and made sure they would cover it, and went forward with the allergy shots. Two days of getting shot up with every single thing you’re allergic to is exactly as fun as it sounds. 

Fast-forward to today. My allergies are better. The maintenance shots seem to be working, and I no longer scare people away with the length and frequency of the amount snot leaving my nose. 

After many calls to the hospital and many calls to the insurance company to make sure all the claims had been submitted and to make sure it was all correct so that I didn’t pay for anything that was actually covered, I’m left with a bill for $2,556.96.

The medical world is elusive. I asked how much it would be. I wanted to add it up, weigh it all, and make sure it was going to be worth it. I had learned my lesson with getting into trouble with debt in the past, and I was not going to be making the same kind of mistakes again. I was determined to be responsible now. I thought I had it all sorted out. The hospital couldn’t (or wouldn’t) give me an exact price for the allergy shots, and I was instructed to call my insurance company. The insurance company told me it was a covered thing so I went forward with that knowledge. 

I guess it’s good to know that even though “life stuff” like this happens that there is a way out. That I can start the Spending Fast on an as needed basis to get out of debt fairly quickly. It’s good to know that it works. That it is an option today. 

Since I got my debt paid off I’ve been able to put a little bit of money into a savings account for emergencies. I don’t see this as an emergency so I’m going to leave that stash stashed away. I’ve got a payment plan set up with the hospital and I told them I’d pay them $150 every month. The payment plan starts in November so I will finish out October with the Spending Diet and start the Spending Fast up again November. That’s a tricky time of year to start it up again with the holidays coming but it’s got to be done.

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Now Is Right On Time

“Your journey has molded you for your greater good, and it was exactly what it needed to be. Don’t think that you lost time. It took each and every situation you have encountered to bring you to the now. And now is right on time.” – Asha Tyson

I’ve spent a lot of time feeling so out-of-control with my money and debt. I think about all that stuff I bought that I don’t even remember. All that money spent with nothing to show for it. I wonder how many things my parents didn’t do because they couldn’t afford it because I owed them money and wasn’t sending it to them. I was spending my money frivolously rather than sending it to the people I was supposed to send it to.

Selfishly, my wants overshadowed my obligations.

It’s easy to think about the time wasted… that horrible feeling of being in debt that I was in for so long. It’s easy to think that I should’ve done different things, and also, “how could I be so irresponsible with money!?”

The important thing is that today I can make different choices, and choose to have a different kind of life. A life that’s responsible. A life that I’m proud of. I’m glad I took the steps to start the Spending Fast when I did because I never would’ve guessed that I’d get to a place when debt was no longer in my life.

The time that it took to get here had to happen. As miserable as I was financially that time was needed. Today, thinking about that horribleness keeps me motivated because I never want to get into debt again. I never again want to be that out of control with my finances. Those feelings made me desperate enough to take action.

It all has a purpose.

Turns out, you can change your life too. There’s no need to waste any more minutes of your life feeling like crap because of money. You can change your life and it can be better.

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The KFAB Morning Show

Yesterday at 7:20am I had the chance to talk with Gary Sadlemeyer and Scott Voorhees on the Good Morning Show at the 1110 KFAB radio station out of Omaha, Nebraska. 

On Wednesday night I kept dreaming that I missed their phone call 4 times (!) and then when I realized they had been trying to call I tried to call them back but it was too late and the show was over.

Booooooooo.

Turns out, it all went great. No oversleeping, no missed calls. I had Aaron, my husband, set his alarm early for me (double alarm approach) so I could get up a little earlier than usual and make some coffee, get ready for work, do the interview, and head into work. It’s a little surreal to do a radio interview and then go to your job for the state. Fun but surreal. 

Here’s the link to the interview. 

just woke up puff face

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How To Cut Your Own Hair – A Tutorial

You’ll never believe how easy it is to cut your own hair!

How To Cut Your Own Hair – A Tutorial… 

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$473K in Debt, Now What?!!?!!

I thought that if I was ever going to get out of the debt I needed a miracle. The options I saw in front of me were to either file for bankruptcy or win the Lottery (and I didn’t even play the Lotto). I’m really curious about these two financial extremes (HERE’S THE 1ST INTERVIEW and here’s the 2nd interview) so I will be interviewing people who have either filed for bankruptcy or who have come into very large sums of money through unconventional means.

We will be exploring the effects of both on life in the short and long-term. In the final installation I will be interviewing a man who won 6 Million Dollars in the Colorado Lottery. I hope you find these interviews as interesting and insightful into the extremes of money as I do. 

The 3rd interview in the series (below) is with a wonderful woman named Shelly. She’s going to talk to us about the nitty gritty of filing for bankruptcy.

And Then We Saved: How much debt did you have when you filed for bankruptcy?

Shelly: $473,084.43

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On Dr. Drew’s CNN/HLN Show with Clark Howard

Last Friday night I started getting a whole bunch of messages on Facebook.

Like these ones:

We shot the interview a week or so ago and I didn’t know when it would air so it was a happy surprise to get the messages from people on Facebook. We only have the most basic of cable packages (so the image isn’t fuzzy) so I didn’t get to see it as it aired… ironic, right! Out went a frantic text to my family hoping someone might be able to catch it. Luckily, my dad turned to CNN/HLN right as I came on!

During the interview it was crazy to be sitting there and have Dr. Drew in my ear (via ear bud) and then to get to speak with Clark Howard too (he knows his stuff!). I kept thinking about all those years I listened to LoveLine as a youngin’ peering into the juicy details of adult lives. I thought I was pretty cool/scandalous to be hearing that stuff. 

Dr. Drew showed some of the clips from when I was Clark Howard’s show and we got to speak with a woman who is 100k in debt. I wish I had more time to talk with her… there’s so much to say.

The above video was shot on my sister phone from the TV so it’s a bit rough… As soon as Dr. Drew puts up the official clip I’ll replace this one. (If you have Comcast Xfinity you can view the whole legit episode online).

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Reasons Why

Instead of giving myself reasons why I can’t. I give myself reasons why I can. 

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Keep Going

There is a lively discussion happening over on the Community page. (Here’s the link.) It got me riled up- in a good way. I saw the underlying question and discussion as “If difficulty happens. If things get hard with the Spending Fast and/or Spending Diet- do I give up?”. My answer is obviously “Heck No” but you can read all about it and join in the discussion too. I would like to hear your thoughts on this topic.

Some things on my mind: 

  • Just because something is hard doesn’t mean that that is enough of a reason to give up.
  • Keep going. Keep deciding to become debt-free. And then once you’re debt-free keep deciding to STAY out of debt and build a secure financial future.
  • We CAN do HARD things. 
  • Getting out of debt is not easy but it IS worth it.
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Month 8 of the Spending Diet- Complete!

Well, I suppose Month 8 was technically “complete” like 13 days ago seeings as how this is the 13th of September and all but hey, here it is. Ripe for your viewing pleasure.

In August, I saved $387.35 (the Spending Diet remains far harder than the Spending Fast. In my opinion I suggest going for the gold, cutting through the B.S., getting through the tough transition/getting used to it part, reaping more benefits, and getting out of debt faster by cutting off your excess spending cold-turkey and just do the Spending Fast already. The Spending Diet allows discretionary spending which for me, was easier to cut out completely while I was changing my thoughts around money. I suggest using the Spending Diet method after the Spending Fast to gradually ease back into normal spending habits at the completion of the Spending Fast but that’s just what has worked for me).

Which brought my grand total of savings to $25,543.86. Which is kind of completely nuts. Remember, this money was saved by working my average paying day job as a clerk for the state, by spending on “Needs” only, by reducing the amount I spend on “Needs” even more, by creating additional income by thinking of creative ways to utilize my talents and skillz (yes, a Z- you know I had to), by selling all the junk and crap I no longer use, need and/or want, by starting the momentum of getting debt paid off, by writing about all of it to keep myself accountable, lots of other stuff that you can read about in the archives of the blog, but probably most importantly I finally learned how to tell myself “No”… and my word, that took long enough to get.

I didn’t do anything magical to get out of debt that you can’t do too. I’m going to write a post soon about all the reasons I hear about why people say they can’t do it too and I’ll tell you why they-you can. It’s gonna be juicy so stay tuned.

If you’re curious about the complete break-down on my savings and the respective monthly disbursements that have happened from Day 1 of the Spending Fast throughout 2010 and into 2011 through this years Spending Diet (which goes up to this very day) then you can see it all on the Total Savings page.

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50 Free (or Cheap) Family Activities!

Great ideas! 50 free or cheap family activities

Despite what parenting magazines and all the advertisers would have you believe entertaining children and doing things together as a family does not need to cost you hundreds of dollars every time you want to do something. Yes, there are activities that cost a lot, but there are also a lot of free and cheap activities you can do instead. Rather than having your kids play computer games or watch TV, you might be surprised at how many fun and simple things can be done that they’ll really enjoy and won’t cost you a lot of money.

50 Free (or Cheap) Family Activities…

 

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5280 5280 5280 5280 5280

If you ever need a sure-fire way to NOT spend money get a dose of food-poisoning. I got a big helping of it on Saturday night.

I barfed no less than 7 times and lost count after that. Every 1/2 hour the bathroom and I met up again.

It. Was. Terrible. 

Food poisoning is definitely NOT the recommended way to save money. 

The icky-ness from the icky-ness is starting to fade luckily.

In the mean-time here are some pics from the article I mentioned a week or so ago that was published in the May 2011 issue of 5280 magazine and the link to the story is right here

the cover

table of contents the story! 

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Debt Be Gone!

You can end your debt too. It CAN be done!

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Saving REALLY Can Be as Fun as Shopping

I just love this comment that reader Katie left. She says “It’s so great that And Then We Saved helps us see that saving can be as much fun as spending.” That just made my day!

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via health girl tumblr

Don’t give up.

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Did It REALLY JUST HAPPEN!!???

OH MY GOSH.

I PAID OFF MY DEBT.

ALL of IT.

Every last penny.

My. My. My.

This is crazy.

Freaking Crazy.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I never thought it would REALLY HAPPEN!!

The Spending Fast and Spending Diet FREAKIN’ WORKED!

What the heck!!?? Wow… !

See the Total Savings breakdown here.

More details soon!!

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Autonomy

(While I’m away visiting a lovely friend, I’m reposting some content from my archives. This one was originally published on February 9, 2010).  

One of the best things about this Spending Fast process has been the possibility of getting to a point of being autonomous and not owing anything to anyone. How great would it be to not owe money to credit card companies, school loan companies, banks or parents?

Oh. It. Would. Be. Amazing.

For me, autonomy is about being personally independent. The reality is if you’re accepting money from someone they get a say in how things happen. Or, at least they’ll think they get a say in how things happen which can sometimes render more grief than if they actually had their way. Really, I’m finding that I can’t be all that independent if I’m financially dependent on someone or some bank or some line of credit.

That line of credit, that “bail out” is just a big fat white collared anchor attached to your leg; a ball and chain that has good grammer and has been looked over 20 thousand times by a lawyer charging $300 bucks an hour; it’s someone jumping out of a plane with no parachute and asking you to hold their hand on the way down. Geez. that’s more depressing then I intended it to be.

If you need to borrow anyone’s money, have ever borrowed anyone’s money or currently owe anyone money the people/businesses probably have a say (or want) a say in how things go down. Who doesn’t know a father that gave money to a daughter for her wedding but put stipulations on that money? They want a say in who can and can’t be on the invite list,  if you are allowed to live “in sin” before marriage or not and even if alcohol is served at the reception or not. Or what about the gift that is given with strings attached? If you haven’t ever been given money or a gift with strings attached than you are probably in denial to the whole situation while everyone talks about it behind your back or you are a lucky chap who also just so happens to be a leprechaun with a pot of gold at your beck and call.

Really, money brings up all sorts of feelings and expectations for people and how people spend money shows where a persons priorities lie in life. So, then that brings up feelings and emotions and deep down things that we thought we had already talked to death about but turns out, we hadn’t dealt with it like we had thought.

Autonomy is a concept that came into my world a few years ago. Never knew what it meant before then because I never had a reason to care. And I didn’t decide to act on it until now. Since now I don’t want to owe anyone anything. I want to be free of that. I want to be self-governing. I want to be able to make decisions based on my best interest and not what is in the best interest of the people or organizations that I owe money to. I want as many financial strings as possible to disappear.

This Spending Fast is helping me get to a place of autonomy in the long run. It’s hard to remember all this when I’m in the moment and want to buy something that would make my life easier for the moment.

My motto has always been “You either spend time or money” and now, I’m spending the time to get my stuff in order and paid off and develop a life being autonomous.

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Which Method For The Madness?

There’s a lot of talk from financial guru’s like Suze Orman and Dave Ramsey about which method is best for paying off credit card debt. To get my credit cards paid off I used my own method. (When I started the Spending Fast I hadn’t even heard of Dave Ramsey). I should share it since it worked for me. 

who me? 

And Then She Saved’s Method for paying off credit card debt (this is what I did):

Step 1 – Write down all the credit cards you have. 

Step 2 – Call the credit companies and ask them what your current balance is and most importantly, what is the interest rate on the card? (I had no idea what they were when I called them and was shocked to find out how much they were and ohmigosh the rate is listed on the bill they send out)

Step 3 – While on the phone with the company ask them to lower the interest rate. Some will do it. It’s worth a shot huh.

Step 4 – Okay, now that you have the card balances with the interest rates write the highest interest rate credit card at the top to the lowest interest rate card at the bottom.

Step 5 – Pay the absolute max you can every month on the highest interest rate card until it’s wiped out while paying the minimum on the others. (Luckily the credit card that had the highest interest rate for wasn’t the credit card with the highest balance so it was a morale booster to eliminate that relatively quickly)

Step 6 –  Once that highest interest rate card is paid off you will be able to increase the amount you send to the next card on your list. Continue until ALL of your cards are paid off and then do the same method on your other debts.

My order of attack: credit cards, loan from parents, college loans.

And there you have it!

And… The Guru’s Methods…

Dave Ramsey’s Snowball Method for paying off credit cards:

Step 1 – Make a list of all your credit cards, ranked in order from the highest balance to the smallest balance.

Step 2 – Beginning with the card with the smallest balance, pay as much as you can on that card while paying the minimums on the other cards.

Step 3 – Once the card with the smallest balance is paid off, take the amount you were paying towards that card and apply to the card with the next lowest balance.

Step 4 – Keep on keepin’ on until ALL the cards are paid off.

Suze Orman’s Method found in The Road to Wealth:

Step 1 – Figure out the largest possible amount you can afford to pay each month toward all your credit card balances together.

Step 2 – Add $10 to each minimum payment that your credit card company is asking you to pay.

Step 3 – Add up all your minimum payments plus $10 added for each card.

Step 4 – Hopefully the difference between the figure found in Step 1 is GREATER than the figure in found in Step 3. If so, apply the difference to the card with the HIGHEST interest rate.

Step 5 – Once that card is paid off, you continue the process (Steps 1 – 4) until ALL the cards are paid off.

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How To Trick Yourself Into Liking Off-Brand Foods

Something that has been helping me with buying the off-brand versions of foods at the grocery store is to put the generic version of the item in the old name brand package.

Like this for example: 

Say you buy some Kroger oats (this is our local grocery store King Soopers generic brand) just go ahead and pour those generic oats into the Quaker oats container. Then when that white-haired Quaker fellow is staring at ya from the cupboard it doesn’t feel nearly as painful to eat those oats. At least for me. Plus oats are cheap! Even better.

Here’s another example for you: when you run out of your fancy coffee shop coffee go ahead and fill up that 1/2 lb bag with Folgers or whatever inexpensive coffee you have around and it instantly tastes better!

The power of suggestion really does seem to have magical powers.

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Cuddley Suze Orman & My New Love of Personal Finance Books

Never thought I’d say this but I’ve been reading financial books before I go to sleep!

My fave has been a paperback Suze (is it pronounced Suzy or Suz? I’ve heard both) Orman book. The 2009 Action Plan to be specific…despite it being 2010 I think it may have some good tips.

I’ll find myself going through my normal nightly routine and then bam! Suze Orman basically hops into bed with me as my new cozy, financially responsible cuddle bunny.

Never. Ever. Thought I’d see the day. But… here it is upon us in all its glory.

That book is tricky too because it’s shaped like a fun book- you know small and soft and novel sized and then there it goes talking all about being responsible and 401(k)’s and equity and taxes and saving and spending and everything else.

I got a whole other stack of other financial books from the library too. A book about how to Live Large on a Budget (I was excited about that one), a book about getting out of debt, a huge one that is at least 700 pages and some other ones that have been wanting some attention and have been getting desperately ignored. I can guarantee that these books will get a good flipping through… though actually reading them and following the advice given is a whole other story.

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On Not Making Exceptions to Make the Spending Fast Easier

The other day I posed a question to you all in this here post. After a lot of thought, consideration, deliberation, hibernation and back and forth. I’ve decided to tough it out and not make any allowances for any sort of fun budget.

At this point I think it’s the right decision. As tough as the Spending Fast is I don’t want to buckle cause it’s getting harder. Part of doing this for an entire year is to see what I’m capable of… to face difficulties head-on and to stick to my guns and really DO THIS as shitty and as difficult as it is at times.

So.

That’s what I’m gonna do. Deal with the difficulty and uncomfortable-ness of being out of my comfort-zone. I’m gonna stay strong and walk through the tough parts. Like my pep talk?

Thank you to all of you who left comments. A lot of them helped me to consider some different angles on the subject and that is definitely appreciated.

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You know what’s free? Compliments!

Compliments!

 

Hook someone up with some gen-u-wine niceness.

It’ll go far. Trust me… and if it doesn’t well, urrr, ur, uh…

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In Preparation for The Spending Fast – Last-Minute “Needs”

oh! so totally cute. and yes, very needed!

Since my Spending Fast is coming up in 2 days (ack.) I was thinking that I need to figure out what I might need for the entire next year and just hurry up and buy it all right now. What holidays, birthdays, anniversaries, trips might possibly come up?

I’ll plan for it ALL RIGHT NOW and then this whole challenge will be A WHOLE WHOLE LOT EASIER.

I probably should buy a whole bunch of those bank gift cards where there is a certain amount of money on em and then I will be set for any uncomfortable/difficult/don’twannadothespendingfastanymore moments.

I’m not gonna do that but that’s a good idea huh.

Here are some of the items that I have bought in my last minute hastiness before the spending fast starts. I just NEED this stuff. Right. (See. I tried to tell you I have spending issues):

A stamp set. Never know when this may come in handy! fancy hair ties. uhh. when rubberbands just won’t do.

 

i have no excuse. they sold me. blasted home shopping network.

It’d be appropriate to say that yes, last minute panic is setting in. I’m starting to worry about the reality of how this will work and if I will really be able to pull this off.

A lot of people are asking me questions about different scenarios that may happen throughout the year and how I will handle them all and really, I don’t know all or even most of the answers to their questions. ”We’ll see” I say to them while wondering to myself how it will really all shake out. I feel that I don’t have to know how every detail will go down and that part of this will be figuring out how to do a year-long spending fast while messing up and sometimes doing it just right.

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Here We Go! The Start of The Spending Fast!

Consumption by Erin Hanson

My idea is to go on a spending fast for a year – spending money on necessities only- to see what the heck happens.

When I mentioned to a good friend that I was thinking about going on a spending fast for 2010 she sighed and said “Well, that doesn’t sound very fun.” Then, I told my husband what I was thinking about doing and he wasn’t very excited about it either. He said “Great. No more fun. No more eating out. This is gonna suck.”

I have to tell you, I feel the same way. Who would want to not get want they want? I’m the type that buys what she wants when she wants because I work hard and I feel like I deserve it. I know plenty of people that have the same feelings as I do about work and money and spending and not spending.

Inside my head I hear this loudly: “YOU DESERVE IT! YOU WORK SOOO HARD!!” and truly, I believe that I do. I mean, I woke up early for goodness-sake! I did what was asked of me and I was even nice while doing it! I DESERVE that super cute thingy or hat or whatever from Etsy dammit! (by the way, at last count I have 71 (!) yes- 71 pages of favorites!! ack!) Besides, I work a full-time day job AND I run a full-time wedding photography business AND what else can I think of? I do a lot and my spending is justified… until it isn’t anymore.

When I was planning for our wedding that took place in May 2009 my dad gave me a little chunk of money that I could use as needed for wedding stuff. I got really used to having that money around. Being able to spend like I wanted helped me morph a kinda-bad habit into a super-bad habit. And once the wedding rolled around and things changed from “planning the soon to be fond memories” phase to the “oh, remember that?” phase… guess what didn’t stop when the planning stopped? My spending.

And.. that’s where I am today… starting January 1st, I’m gonna spend money on necessities only and I’m fully prepared for this to suck.

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