As humans, we make mistakes. Sometimes these mistakes hurt the feelings of other people, or our own feelings may be hurt. A grudge may be formed when forgiveness seems unattainable, and that inability to forgive can lead to a grudge. The grudge may go on for a few weeks, or it can last for years.
Holding a grudge can have negative effects on our lives and our physical health. Learning how to let go and release any grudges you may hold is super powerful.
You may be asking yourself “and how does this relate to paying off my debt and living debt free?” Well, lemme tell you. Having a grudge costs a lot. Mainly, a lot of time and a lot of energy.
Getting out of debt is about living our best lives so we can focus on the good things in our lives. The things that truly matter, not shitty grudge-like things, you know?
Here are 10 ways to relieve a grudge and learn how to forgive others for a happier, more fulfilled life:
1. Pinpoint the Issue
Some people hold a grunge based on negative feelings without ever really identifying the core, deep-down issue. In order to find resolution to a problem, you have to first identify it. You may have to dig deep to admit the actual problem, but doing so can help you find the solution.