Having more Date nights showed up on my list of things to work on in 2015. (We went out the other night and we saw The Theory of Everything. It was amazing. Try to see it if you haven’t already. If Eddie Redmayne doesn’t win the Oscar I’ll be shocked. He’s so talented.) Dates are such a great way to connect with your loved one whether you are married or still enjoying the early stages of a relationship. However, being on a debt free quest or making the decision to live frugally can sometimes throw an old monkey wrench in the romantic liaisons department. While thrifty thinking can change your automatic date instincts it definitely doesn’t mean that all those fun nights together have to end. Oh heck no. Just like with most things, when you’re being careful with your money you just need to get a little creative with your plans.
Here are 24 ways to celebrate a date night for $10 or less…
This is what I’ve learned: when you get to the other side (of debt or whatever, really) it’s those struggles that you can use to help others who are going through what you went through. Once you’ve found the way out you get to help others get there too. You’re able to relate in a way no one else can. You’ve been there. You know how hard it is and how hard things can be. But once you’ve gotten to the other side you know this too… you know there’s an answer.
So, with that I’ve got to tell you, I’ve been there. I know. It’s hard to get out of debt and it hard to be in debt. But this is the thing. You get to choose your hard. You get to choose which one you want and which one you don’t. And truly, the reward is not so great without the struggle. It’s the struggling that makes it Oh So Sweet when you reach the goal you’ve been working towards. You’ve got this. You absolutely CAN get out of debt!
December was the month that I had anticipated a spending spree. With the holidays in full swing, I always have the tendency to overdo things– more gifts, more food, more spending and ultimately, more regret! I had been (fairly) good all year, but I was afraid that somehow the spirit of St. Nicholas would possess my body and credit card. But lucky for me, I’m a planner, I had planned and purchased most of my gifts before December ever rolled around. I had budgeted just $100 for holiday gifts. I did use $100 separate from my $100 Spending Diet fund, but it was $100 none the less. It was still a challenge. I did obsess over the $100 gift budget. I planned sales, I planned coupons and I did more math than I had done in the last 5 years. I also had a strategy. Here’s some things that helped me…
Last Thursday was a big day because that was the day I handed over my book manuscript to the publisher!
Last week was intense. Monday I worked on it 17 hours. Tuesday 14 hours, and Wednesday, another 17 hours. On Wednesday I didn’t go to sleep until 5:30 am, and then I woke up at 7:30 am to get right back to work. Even though I’ve been working on the book for the past year there were just all these little things that I wanted to tweak to make it just right. 65,000 words of Spending Fast goodness were handed over at 4:30pm EST. I was so wound up from adrenaline that I was buzzing around the rest of the day. Then, I crashed on Friday, and spent the next couple of days recovering! :)
Now, all sorts of things will take place leading up to the book’s publication which will be in January 2016. Another few rounds of edits will take place. The cover will get designed, the illustrations will be put into place (you’ll LOVE them, btw!), and the layout with be laid (?… lol).
It’s all so exciting! Thanks for being a part of the process, and for letting me share this big accomplishment with you! xo, Anna
When I was watching the news the other day I saw that the top 3 resolutions for 2015 are:
1. Lose weight.
2. Get out of debt. (#heck yeah)
3. Get organized.
I usually don’t make “official” resolutions because I do a pretty good job already of trying to work on myself and my goals throughout the year. With the New Year though, it’s hard to not pay special attention to things to focus on improving.
But, this year I decided I would get focused and write out a list. Nothing makes things official quite like lists do.
Hi! Below is Spending Faster, Jenn’s December update. She’s doing so amazing! See her past updates here and here. – Anna
MONTH TWO OF THE SPENDING FAST
Even with Christmas, I was able to save some money in the month of December! It’s been a busy month for me, but not with buying gifts and focusing on the holiday. My family and friends understood this, relieving me of the stresses of the holiday season. Aren’t they great? I am truly grateful for the people in my life, because they all genuinely want what’s best for me.
I did, however, give my mom some framed artwork of mine and my dad and friends some of those DIY ring dishes from A Beautiful Mess (the ones Anna made are pictured above).
In December, I focused on ways to bring in more money. This is what I did:
Ebay: I have listed some items that I don’t use anymore and am continuing to do so. I have sold $250 so far, but you have to minus the shipping cost and cost of using Ebay. I would still say not too shabby.
Society6: I started up a society6 account to sell some art prints as I work on my passion for painting abstract art.
Etsy: I also just opened an Etsy shop today and my first items for sale are two of the jewelry dishes leftover from the Christmas gifts. I will be adding original artwork for sale on this site.
I also received a Christmas bonus of $300 at work. And it was saved instead of spent on gifts.
This month has been about combining passion with income. I definitely feel like I am taking a plunge and putting myself out there so to speak. But I have a newfound sense of excitement and purpose. I have a new appetite for education and learning that will enhance my passions. It is coming to my attention that nothing happens overnight, and that my impatience for things to happen overnight is a notion I have to let go of to keep moving forward.
Total saved for month two: $400
Which went into a savings account for an emergency fund. My impatience has, however, gotten me to say the amount of $400 will my emergency fund (instead of the 1,000 I set out for in the beginning). In the interest of time and my sanity, I feel like this is an ok amount to set aside for now and to begin on throwing the money at my debt.
There are people that will always say “there’s just no money to save!” (I know because I used to be one of those people!). Luckily, there are actually A TON of ways to get some cash back into your pockets by doing a few simple things around the house. We all know there is no better time than right now to start saving more money!
I’ve compiled a massive list for you, and I’d love to hear what you do to save money around the house. Let me know in the comments, and tell me if I missed anything! I always love hearing what you all do to save because y’all are always coming up with clever ways to save money that just blow my mind.
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