Jenn’s Spending Fast Update (Months 7-9)
Author: Jenn Davis

Note from Anna: Apologies for being behind in getting Jennifer’s post up.

Where to start?

My last update was in April.

I fell off the wagon and spent some money on clothes—and overall I wasn’t successful in paying any debt off for the month of May (month 7). Falling off the wagon happens to everyone, but I find that I especially have trouble. Whether with the Spending Fast, fitness goals, or goals in general, I have to find patience. Patience with myself, and with how long it takes to see results. I want results right away, usually right after a declaration of a goal.

With that said, I’ve found that these tips have helped me to develop being  patience:

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How (and Why) to Relieve That Grudge – Letting It Go
Author: Anna Newell Jones

How (and why) to Resolve a Grudge |

As humans, we make mistakes. Sometimes these mistakes hurt the feelings of other people, or our own feelings may be hurt. A grudge may be formed when forgiveness seems unattainable, and that inability to forgive can lead to a grudge. The grudge may go on for a few weeks, or it can last for years.

Holding a grudge can have negative effects on our lives and our physical health. Learning how to let go and release any grudges you may hold is super powerful.

You may be asking yourself “and how does this relate to paying off my debt and living debt free?” Well, lemme tell you. Having a grudge costs a lot. Mainly, a lot of time and a lot of energy.

Getting out of debt is about living our best lives so we can focus on the good things in our lives. The things that truly matter, not shitty grudge-like things, you know?

Here are 10 ways to relieve a grudge and learn how to forgive others for a happier, more fulfilled life:

1. Pinpoint the Issue

Some people hold a grunge based on negative feelings without ever really identifying the core, deep-down issue. In order to find resolution to a problem, you have to first identify it. You may have to dig deep to admit the actual problem, but doing so can help you find the solution.

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Living Tiny: Bama’s Unconventional Airstream
Author: Melanie Gnau

Living Tiny: Bama's Unconventional Airstream| And Then We Saved

At ATWS we’re interested in challenging the norm of debt and spending. That’s why once a month we feature people who have gone to (what some would say) extreme means with their living situations to get out of debt, save money and live a simpler life. Today we have a house tour with Chris “Bama” Milucky. Bama has lived in a van, a truck and even spent a summer living in a tent! He now resides in an Airstream in the Colorado Rockies. Take it away, Bama!

I’m “Bama,” as in Alabama. That’s what people call me. I don’t know why the wife takes part in all my adventures, but the dog is in it for belly scratches. I’d say I suffer from chronic unemployment, but it’s become second nature. I call it “funemployment.” I work construction jobs when I find ’em, and mountain bike gigs, too. I also author a monthly column in DirtRag Magazine. Read More »


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October’s Collective Savings Totals are In!
Author: Anna Newell Jones

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September’s Collective Savings totals are in! In October we collectively saved $26,141.28! That brings our Collective Savings to $868,008.21!! Impressive!!

If you have been thinking about getting out of debt but just haven’t taken the leap yet why not do it today? Here’s the link to the Get Out of Debt Pledge. You can absolutely have a debt free life too!

Also, be sure to log your savings/debt pay off amounts on the Collective Savings page so I can add in hard work and saving successes!


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The Grass is Greener on The Other Side of the Fence
Author: Melanie Gnau

The Grass is Greener on The Other Side of the Fence - And Then We Saved

“Too many people are thinking the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, when they ought to just water the grass they are standing on.” -Amar Dave

In today’s Internet culture, it’s so easy to think that everyone but yourself has it all together. Everyone else is traveling and hanging with friends and enjoying good food and is #blessed. But it’s important to remember that most often we just share the best parts of our lives. There’s bad parts too, but they don’t make for a good Instagram photo. Let’s spend less time (or on social media) and start watering our own grass.

How are you “watering your own grass?” Let’s chat in the comments!


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Managing Finances With a Stay-At-Home Parent
Author: Anna Newell Jones

Managing Finances With a Stay-At-Home Parent |

Hey Anna,

How do you approach managing money as a couple when one person is a stay-at- home parent? How can the couple avoid feeling like the money earner is “in control” and maintain equality in money-making decisions?
– We Both Work


Dear WBW,

The ability of one half of a couple to stay home and parent children while the other goes to work to earn a living indeed has many benefits. Some benefits include: avoiding the costs of childcare, commuting time and expense, and other work-related expenses. Additionally, the spouse who works outside of the home is usually given more flexibility in his or her career – perhaps allowing the spouse to earn additional cash for overtime, or a deserved raise. However, there are also some potential drawbacks for single-income families.

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How to Cut Back on Birthing Expenses – The Many Benefits of Hiring a Doula
Author: Anna Newell Jones

The Innovative Way to Cut Back on Birthing Expenses |

(Note from Anna: Hiring a doula was one of the absolute best things we did for the birth of our son, Henry. Our doula was technically, “in training” so we we able to benefit from her services without paying a fee. [We did end up giving her a family portrait session for free in exchange for all the help she gave us during Henry’s birth since we were so thankful for all she did for us]. We highly, highly recommend hiring a doula. In case you were wondering;)

None of the information provided below is meant to take the place of your own research. Act based on what is best for you and your family and your individual situation and needs!

One of the most frequent questions I encounter as a childbirth doula is how to cut back on birthing expenses. Most women who contact me already know that I am a doula-in-certification (or doula-in-training), so with this knowledge I am aware that my potential client is working within her budget, which I love! I don’t mind providing my services at a discounted rate while I am working toward my certification because doula work is what I am passionate about. That being said, one of the biggest ways to cut birthing expenses is to recognize pregnancy and birth not as a medical condition but as a natural life event. Once you realize your pregnancy and birth is a normal and natural life process you can think out of the “hospital” box and save money in hiring a doula-in-training no matter where or how you plan to birth.


Doulas-in-training are currently trained by whichever organization they are seeking their certification from. In order to become fully certified, a doula-in-training must attend a number of births and complete required classes, and reading and writing assignments as well as receive evaluations from doctors, midwives, and nurses they interact with during any births they attend. Hiring a doula-in-training will not only provide you with incredible support as you work toward your desired birth but she will also offer her services to you at a discounted rate. From experience, doulas-in-training are usually very knowledgeable as the required material is fresh in their minds and they are also eager to help and do a great job with their first solo births. Many have already attended births accompanying a mentor doula, and newer doulas are not afraid to call on their own support system for wisdom and guidance through your birth if they need some tips or ideas.

A doula can lower your costs all around, and having the support of a doula during birth has been shown to result in shorter labor (who doesn’t want that?) with fewer complications. It also reduces negative feelings about the birthing experience, reduces the need for Pitocin, forceps or vacuum extraction and cesareans, and reduces the mother’s request for pain medication or epidurals. All of this to say the less medical intervention during your birth the lower the overall cost will be. Choosing to birth with a midwife at either a hospital or birth center will dramatically reduce your out-of-pocket costs as compared to birthing in a hospital with an obstetrician. The cost of your individual birth will obviously be dependent on a variety of factors including your insurance coverage, but generally a birth center birth will be the most cost-effective option. Also, most birth centers and some hospitals offer the use of a labor/birth tub either for laboring, birth, or both, and it can take the place of other forms of pain management; they don’t call it the “midwife’s epidural” for nothing—a labor tub is fabulous!

Other ways to save on birthing expenses include:

  • Prepare yourself with information ahead of your birth so that you will be armed with knowledge of the risks, benefits, and alternatives to every procedure or intervention—not only to save money but to prepare yourself physically, emotionally, and spiritually for your new bundle of joy and how he or she will be birthed into the world.
  • Know ahead of time your preferences on costly procedures or interventions so that you are prepared for the bill later. This includes your stance on a range of procedures including, but not limited to, interventions during your labor, newborn shots, ointments, circumcision, and feeding preferences.
  • Remember 4-1-1: Delay going into the hospital until you are in active labor with contractions coming every 4 minutes, lasting 1 minute in length, for at least 1 hour. Going into the hospital too early may not only increase your chances of more costly interventions such as induction, epidural usage, and/or instrumental or caesarian delivery, but at most hospitals if you go in at 11:30pm you get charged for the entire day even though you were only there for 30 minutes of that day!

Obviously go when you absolutely need to, but if you are educated on the stages of labor, you will have a much better experience.

Read books from the library that will encourage and inspire you such as Ina May Gaskin’s Guide to Childbirth, La Leche League’s The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding, Natural Birth the Bradley Way, and The Thinking Woman’s Guide to a Better Birth.

All in all, to cut back on birthing expenses surround yourself with positive support, become empowered with knowledge through books and other experienced women, and double check every bill you get in the mail after your prenatal care, labor, and delivery! I can’t tell you how many bills I received that were incorrectly billed in excess and had I not noticed and done the groundwork to get the bills corrected I would have paid thousands more out-of-pocket than necessary! Armed with knowledge of what is really necessary to birth your baby will make all the difference in the world, not only in the memories of your birth experience for years to come but in also in your ability to make the most informed financial decisions during this life-changing event.

Have you hired a doula in the past? Are you considering hiring a doula for the birth of your next child? Do you have any tips for how to cut back on birthing expenses?

Valerie Rohde is a wife, a new mom, and a childbirth doula working toward certification. She has a full time “day job” on top of the many other hats she wears while she and her husband are working hard toward becoming financially free of old debts and student loans. She is currently working toward her doula certification as well as becoming a childbirth educator and lactation consultant. She has an intrinsic love for writing and has just begun chronicling her family’s financial journey at Taking the Rohde Less Traveled as well as her more personal journey to parenthood here.

P.S. Related: My $110,618.02 Birth Story

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When the world says give up, hope whispers try it one more time
Author: Melanie Gnau

When the world says give up, hope whispers try it one more time. -And Then We Saved

“When the world says give up, hope whispers try it one more time.” -Unknown

Maybe you’ve tried to complete the Spending Fast. Maybe you failed. Maybe you had an emergency or just fell back into your old habits. It happens. But the best part is: you can start again. You can try it one more time.

How are you trying to save “one more time?” Talk to me in the comments!



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    Hi, I'm Anna! I paid off close to 24k in debt in only 15 months & it completely changed my life! I want you to have a debt-free life too so here you'll be able to read all about: How to do a Spending Fast®, saving & making more money, DIY's, & a lot about living awesomely with less. Also! We're building a Tiny House and we're going to be on Tiny House Nation. Follow along!!

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